LOVEThis word it is very important in the human life... We have many different kind of loves on earth... But in common thing of love is we want to give the best thing on earth to the people or the things we love... I ever heard the Learned say "Love is can change the world"... I strongly agree with that!!!
As in my life so far, I saw many different kind of loves, some was by my own experience and some are by many people around me... Though the reason of love are different, but the common thing is... People can change their life for the people or for the things they love... It just for them to can give the best thing to what they love... And they never change their mind when they have true love of someone or something...
Now, I would like to tell everybody of the real story of Love story of the Aussie man and Thai girl... It beacause we are in common on the website of friendship Australia and Thailand... I would love everybody to read my story and I am very thankful if everybody can give me a comment or an opinion of this story... One girl from Thailand she came to Australia to study, but it is becease her femily was very poor... She have to work very hard to got the money to pay for school and her expense... One day she have accidently met some of Aussie man... She was fell in love to him on the first sighted... But the man only want to be her friends and he very kind to her... After they became a friends, they have always contact each other... The girl she working in the restaurant and finish very late at night, everynight... And the man he work as a mechanic, and he always work very hard too. he finish hit job late night same as her...
The girl she studying and working very hard,,, but it is because she have a hearth of true love to him... She never thinking of herself, she always thinking of him, and worried about him... She used all of her a little free time and some of her a little money to buy thing to cooked the foods for him and brought the foods to gave to him in his work-shop, almost everyday that she did that... Some time when he call her after midnight, to tell her that he very hungry... Then she have quickly got-up from her bed to cooked for him and brought the foods to gave to him in his work-shop... She did like that for many months, without anything back from him... Only she can meet him, can see he smilling, can see he happy and she can see he eat her foods it is enough to make her happied...
One day, the man told her that he already knew that she love him, he can read her from her eyes and from every thing she did for him... And he said to her that he love her too... But he need more time to get to know her better... The girl she was very glad of what he said,,, It is becaese she already love him very much, she put herself on him, she told him that she want to be his girl, only he can let her love him, let her be his girl, let her do every thing for him, it enough for her... Then their relationship were deeply... She still did the same thing to him like she always did... She never asked for him to help her of any problem thing or money... She dont want him to think, maybe she need some thing from him...
About one year later, that their relationship were like that... Everyone of her friends in Australia were knew about their relationship(not include in Thailand, because the culture in Thailand is not accept the relationship like this without married) ,,, But she never meet once of his friends or his family... All of her friends were asked her "Why dont they getting marry" and some of her bad friends said to her that "she act like a women of the street!!! offer the free foods, and free body for a man" and "she break Thai culture"... She was very hurt from that... She was never thought of those thing... She was thinking only of love... Yes, she love him very much, than can make her look pass of every opposite thing... Only love that she can see.... She talked to him once day about those thing, and asked him what will he do??? He only told her to wait for him untill he sure of that she love him, and he dont know for how long that she have to wait for... He told her that he have many of his friends were have married to Thai girl, then most of Thai girl left Aussie man after two years, when they got the PR. and a half of their money!!!!!!! And he told her that he have a bad experience of separate from his two x-girlfriend, and they both took a lot of his money and left him... He dont want to get hurt any more from the women he love... She was so pain and confusing of what she heard... WHAT CAN I DO?????.. She asked herself... But none of ANSWER....
With Permission from Khun Mary we have added the following references
Thailand Culture - Thai Love "it's unqiue" Includes "Heart Culture" of Thai Language, The people and their Country, Dating in Thailand <> Cultural conflicts
-- Edited by Sawasdee on Thursday 20th of August 2009 10:10:24 PM
-- Edited by Sawasdee on Saturday 22nd of August 2009 10:43:05 PM
-- Edited by Mary on Sunday 23rd of August 2009 02:29:52 AM
-- Edited by Mary on Sunday 23rd of August 2009 03:45:10 AM
The love my story.less experience, but my love. It is still good value and the beautiful always.I never blame love.Although it sometimes painful heart.make depress me just one phase.ButI have from love. It greater than me lose.When me love. It only means What me need??.Yes, sometimes me a not good, but good thai culture to replace it.I give his love to smarter and he is understand me as well.Every day I still the good in love and beautiful in love. Although returns may not like the original.
The Love of Thai girl with Aussie man
Lives of people.There are many times that we to find love or happen on love always. Could we know what we do or who we love him. I never take the love with money be basis in love someone. I just hope he will be there beside me. Have the same goal. Have the same dream. Can help each other. Care of each other.
Today is accepted and sympathetic Thai girl.To marry another male. Not mean that we can not love with other men of this world.We just love to look beautiful. And we must be love does not attack someone.I know a thai culture want to make love with everyone.Just ask the true love or not to be obsessed with love and makes blind. That love has no end to the marriage.Society in some people remain together not by a marriage. But they are happy.
I never love the foreign. I do not understand foreign cultures. I happen on love with Aussie . We are on the same destination. To help people. Sharing ideas.
I love to him with good love not attack him with a love that is not correct. He must be a leader. He has to happy. Makes him fun. Everything must be complete and to help work with him. Makes him successful. I do not be shy.I have to my love is only a tool. To fight the issue all issues.
If love this. Disappointed again. I never blame love. I'm glad to love him. Just see him smile, he is happy progress and successful. It's my happiness is morally heart. The Love is the best give.
Don’t be Shy : Do not confuse what you decide. Be happy of yourself to be have the love and have the heart. Love is good value and beautiful. Love to smarter and Not escape LOVE.
hi mary, i read your love story about aussie man and I think it very typical of aussie men.He say he love you and he visit you late at night and he never take youto meet his friends or his family. maybe becasue he is married or has a girlfreind. aussie men - like all men - can be real bastards. he says he only come because he is hungry and he want nothing from you and he only wanted to be your 'friend'. Is that all he wanted???? if he wanted to be your friend, then i am sure he woukld want you to meet his friends. That is what friends do. If he does not wnat you to meet his friends, then I think there is something very wrong!!!!! I think you relaly need to question your love for him. love needs to be more than that. it needs boith peolpe to LOVE properly and if that does not happen, then there is no real love. Anyway that is what I think but i do not know the whole story. I hope this helps since you ask for an answer. bye,Twish Webster
Thanks for every lovely message from every lovely person...
Yes, we have many different kind of the opinion about love... And only the time will tell us of the real person are... Some people we can see the real of them only a short period of time... But some of them may have to use for the rest of our life to see that...
I think that the girl will use the time to help her decided of what should she do... And hopefully that she can choose the right way for herself...